I’m one of those people who never want to miss a beat in my people’s lives.
I try my best to always show up to the birthdays, weddings, baby showers, happy hours. It doesn’t really matter to me. If I’m invited, it almost feels like auto pilot to put it on my calendar.
I try my best not to miss the moments that make amazing memories. But with a huge community of people— timelines may clash.
It took me a while to rid myself of guilt from missing an event. I had a trip planned for months and missed a birthday party today. I was invited to a wedding of a dear friend that I unfortunately can’t make it to.
And I loathe missing things. So I take the moment to let myself feel sad and that I remind myself that I’m not a bad person just because my schedule can’t align with every single event that pops up.
I definitely used to give myself a hard time. Even now as I write I feel an unwarranted guilt. But I try my best to always extend my love to make sure they know how I feel.
While they might not always be happy with you, it’s a reminder that you also have to do what’s best for you.
Just a note to take it easy. And to continue to give yourself grace.
All my love
JMoore
