Relationship

Was able to spend the weekend exactly how I wanted.  A peaceful stillness spilled over from sleeping in past 6am. Saturday morning was accompanied by pretzeled legs and a warm embrace. I love being able to linger in bed, no agenda that forces me to hop up and go. Just taking moments to stare into […]

Cree and I went to the same college, he’s older than me but we ran in similar circles. Honestly, we ended up getting together through our mutual best friend, Ed. So I already knew of some of the men he called brothers before we dated. But once we got married, I officially inherited the whole

Okay yes, the marriage series is over but this one has been on my heart from some time. I think one of the things that people don’t tell you about when you’re getting married is the wisdom you need to have to give advice to your spouse.  Naturally, Cree comes to me to make life

It was a hot summer day in 2020 and Cree and I were preparing for a taco Tuesday with my best friends. It was back when we lived in the house he owned on 21st street and we kept the windows open for consistent air circulation. I remember showering end sitting down to relax for

My sister told me she’d love a post of all the sweet things Cree does for me. So I’ll try to summarize a list of a million in one blog post. It’s easy to write this because I’ve never met a man who’s treated me better or sweeter. Cree is a man of service, I

Cree and I stand on respect and vulnerability. Understanding that if we don’t have those two things, we will be in trouble. And from the very beginning we established this. I’ll tell you right now, I’m possessive of my man and my marriage. Which means I don’t like thinking about prior relationships, situationships, and/or whatever

A huge part of any relationship requires a certain level of emotional intelligence. Not only being able to read the room but to also not make it about you if your partner is having a bad day, week, or month. I’m an empath and I can truly feel the heaviness of Crees emotions and his

Regardless of how kind and giving I am.  I am naturally selfish. And that carried into my marriage and showed in a variety of ways. Now, Cree happens to be the opposite. Very selfless. Always willing to drop what he needs to do if I ask him for something. If you look at our background,

I entered this marriage more fearful than I even knew myself.  Never thinking I would get married when I did, or randomly “meet” my husband the way I did, I never had the time to fully think about what I thought marriage would be like for me. Probably for the best because I would’ve scared

When I was younger I used to think that routining your life was boring. And if you would’ve told me that your life during marriage becomes routine, I would of said no thanks!! And that’s because I carried a negative connotation with the idea of doing things on automatic, or repeatedly.  But there is so